Those small epiphanies...
Mar. 10th, 2001 08:37 amI have been the subject, of late, of a seeming barrage of wild and crazy statements, some of which represent a 180-degree turnaround of conventional "wisdom." Herewith, two such items:
Belief
One of the several houses of worship down the street has, on its street sign, words to the effect that there are some things in the world that must be "believed in order to be seen." They, of course, are talking about some key aspect or other of their religion, and are encouraging the passerby to have faith. For sure, their formulation turns on its ear the old saw about having to see something in order to believe it.
Believing in something after you see it is easy. That's why nobody doubts the ability of airplanes to fly. On a personal level, it's why few doubt their ability to buy a hamburger, or rent an apartment, or go on vacation; so many people you know have done these things, you know they are accessible to you, too.
But believing in something before you see it...well, that takes guts. But it is sometimes essential if some goal is to be achieved.
More on this later.
Action
One of the mottoes made memorable during my three-month, all-expenses-paid sojourn off the coast of South Carolina (i.e., boot camp on Parris Island) was "when the going gets tough, the tough get going!"
Makes sense, right? Now turn it around: When the tough get going, the going gets tough.
I found that scribbled along the edge of a page of notes I took some time ago; I don't remember when or where. With no disrespect intended for those who, facing adversity, find that they have an untapped reserve of toughness that helps them weather that adversity, after musing on it a while, I now think that the "backward" version of this cliché is the real McCoy.
Why? Because goals are not easy to achieve (nor should they be). Want to be physically fit? You have to exercise. Want to buy a new car (and avoid murderous finance charges)? You have to save. In each case, your life becomes a bit more difficult, and the going gets a little "tougher." And the bigger the goal, the bigger the obstacles that must be overcome.
I need to chew on these further; the fog is beginning to lift.
Cheers...
Belief
One of the several houses of worship down the street has, on its street sign, words to the effect that there are some things in the world that must be "believed in order to be seen." They, of course, are talking about some key aspect or other of their religion, and are encouraging the passerby to have faith. For sure, their formulation turns on its ear the old saw about having to see something in order to believe it.
Believing in something after you see it is easy. That's why nobody doubts the ability of airplanes to fly. On a personal level, it's why few doubt their ability to buy a hamburger, or rent an apartment, or go on vacation; so many people you know have done these things, you know they are accessible to you, too.
But believing in something before you see it...well, that takes guts. But it is sometimes essential if some goal is to be achieved.
Action
One of the mottoes made memorable during my three-month, all-expenses-paid sojourn off the coast of South Carolina (i.e., boot camp on Parris Island) was "when the going gets tough, the tough get going!"
Makes sense, right? Now turn it around: When the tough get going, the going gets tough.
I found that scribbled along the edge of a page of notes I took some time ago; I don't remember when or where. With no disrespect intended for those who, facing adversity, find that they have an untapped reserve of toughness that helps them weather that adversity, after musing on it a while, I now think that the "backward" version of this cliché is the real McCoy.
Why? Because goals are not easy to achieve (nor should they be). Want to be physically fit? You have to exercise. Want to buy a new car (and avoid murderous finance charges)? You have to save. In each case, your life becomes a bit more difficult, and the going gets a little "tougher." And the bigger the goal, the bigger the obstacles that must be overcome.
I need to chew on these further; the fog is beginning to lift.
Cheers...